The only thing which is secured in this economy is “CONFIDENCE”. Nothing else is secured or safe neither your job nor your business.
If you have confidence, it doesn’t matter how low you go into your life or career, you will find a way out and will be a WINNER eventually.
Let’s look at 3 ways to boost up your confidence level!
STOP NEGATIVE SELF TALK
If you think and believe that you don’t have confidence; you are absolutely correct! On the other hand, if you think and believe that you do have incredible confidence; guess what?? You are absolutely correct again!!
The whole idea is to stop negative self-talk. Stop telling yourself that “I am not confident enough”, “I can’t do this”. What you will focus on will become your reality.
My very close friend and a very successful entrepreneur and dentist in Sydney often say that when you wake up in the morning, stand in front of the mirror and say ” I am a very confident person”. If you do this every morning, just imagine “what would happen to your confidence level”??
It will skyrocket, I guarantee because now your subconscious and conscious mind have started believing that you are confident and it will be reflected in your physiology as well.
TAKE ACTION
“Action” is actually what “Changes the Game”!
A lot of us are scared and not confident enough to speak on the stage in front of a large group; Right???
Now for an instance, just analyze; What is the solution to be really confident speaking in front of large groups or even thousands of people??
I believe that the only solution is to get on the stage and give it a GO without worrying about the image or worrying about being perfect. So basically “TAKING AN ACTION”.
What do you think will happen to your confidence if you consistently start speaking in front of the large audience??
I am quite sure that your confidence will grow so quickly and phenomenally:)
Similarly, if you are afraid or not very confident in talking to strangers, how do you think can make it possible??
Simple! Take an action. Be the first one to start the conversation! The worst possible scenario is that the stranger wouldn’t reply! So what?? YOU TRIED! Some people will love to talk to you and will be so grateful to you because there are people out there who love to listen. Talking to strangers has been inspired by my very good friend and author”Kerrie Phipps” who has written a book “Do Talk to Strangers”.
SURROUND YOURSELF WITH PEOPLE WHO ARE CONFIDENT
I cannot think of any other easier way to improve your confidence level significantly! Proximity is Power:)
If you start spending time with people who are very confident, there is no doubt that you will become super confident as well! It is contagious.
I encourage you to spend time with people who are 1 step ahead of you. Learn from the best! Be courageous! Spend time with people who are more confident than you. Lose your ego and get into the zone of learning. Learn from the best. Step out of your comfort zone and take some massive action.
“With confidence, you have won before you have started” – Marcus Garvey